Whenever my birthday approaches I always reflect on what I have done in the past year. As I’m getting closer to turning 30 (yikes!), more and more I think about what I did or didn’t do, what I should have done, and what others are doing that I didn’t do. So looking back, I had a year of ups and downs, moments of pure happiness, but also not so good ones. But more than anything last year was a year of learning. Learning about me, about others and how to deal with situations I avoided before. So, what have I learnt? People come and go. As you get older you realise that you’ll see people coming and leaving your life, and that’s ok. This past year I had a few people lovely people that came into